Having a partner who likes to dramatize is sometimes quite annoying. This happens when you make one small mistake that makes him fiery. However, you shouldn’t just leave him just because of one bad trait.
Moreover, if you and he are both compatible, your relationship must be maintained. There are some wise ways to deal with a partner who likes to dramatize things. So that you can learn a lot, try to read the full discussion below carefully.
1. Never blame her feelings
couple illustration (pexels.com/ANTONI SHKRABA)Couples who like to dramatize sometimes want more attention. He doesn’t like it when his feelings are judged just like that. In other words, you should try to refrain from blaming his feelings. Try to be more gentle with him.
However, this kind of thing requires extra patience because he will most likely swell. However, as a good partner, try to occasionally follow his heart so he can lower his emotions.
2. Tell him about how you felt when it happened
couple illustration (pexels.com/Piotr Arnoldes)Next, you can be honest with him about how you feel right now. If you find it really annoying when he’s dramatizing things a lot, try to talk about it. However, you must still use soft and straightforward language so that he can understand.
Remember, don’t talk about this via WhatsApp messages or anything like that. Try to talk about this face-to-face so he doesn’t misinterpret what you mean. If he manages to win her heart, he will definitely try to make things right.
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3. You have to get used to convincing him so he doesn’t dramatize anymore
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couple illustration (pexels.com/Maxim Goncharenok)You can always try to reassure him so he doesn’t dramatize anything again. The point here is that you have to make him not hesitate to believe what you say. Usually, he will feel suspicious if you don’t explain things clearly.
Try to be very clear so he doesn’t over-dramatize. It sounds a bit complicated, but you will gradually feel the benefits. He will turn into a person who meets your expectations without maintaining a habit of drama.
4. Every now and then try to show your firm side
couple illustration (pexels.com/RODNAE Productions)In addition, you can also try to show your firm side to him. This is done so that he can appreciate you so as to eliminate the bad behavior. However, this will make you vulnerable to fight because he still has a very high ego. Even so, this method is very powerful.
Even though you are firm, you have to keep your words so that he doesn’t get offended. You also have to keep your feelings in check so that prolonged conflict does not occur. Once that’s done, he’ll definitely respect you more.
5. As much as possible try to avoid serious relationship problems
couple illustration (pexels.com/RODNAE Productions)Lastly, you should try to avoid serious problems. Indeed, he must often exaggerate small matters. However, if you face a tough one, believe that bad things will definitely happen.
He might even do something beyond your understanding. Do not let this happen because it will harm your relationship. Therefore, from now on try your best not to create a big problem so it doesn’t backfire on you.
No need to be confused anymore to face a partner who likes to dramatize the situation. Do the five things above so that he can act more mature in his relationship with you.
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